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Chinese
People---
1, 2, 3,
4, 5, 6, 7
Most
Chinese are not religious. They are, however, quite superstitious
though they will deny this. But you don't give a clock as a gift
to a Chinese because the word clock in Chinese is pronounced Zhong, the
sound that applies to the meaning of "death". Four is not a lucky number,
as it also sounds like "death". Eight is a good number in south China
because, in local dialect, it sounds like "prosper".
Chinese love dining and drinking. If
you are working with Chinese Mongolians or some other ethnic Chinese party,
drinking is almost mandatory - it is a demonstration of hospitality and
sincerity and you are expected to enjoy the warmth that the 120 proof
liquor will bring to your heart. If you can't drink, make up reasons
beforehand--say you have doctor's order against any drinking. Tell your
local Chinese translator. Usually he/she will be your best and personal
protector. If you do drink some, in spite of "doctor's order", you
give immense face to your host. If you really can't drink, you should
still raise your cup during the toast, put the cup to your lip, making
a gesture. Give a Chinese a pear and he will give you back a peach.
If he doesn't have a peach readily available, he will remember it and
returning you the peach will become of his life's goal.
A Chinese friend is the best friend you can
ever have in your life. The culture has it that a true friend will
"put knives in both sides of his chest" when it is needed. Confucius'
philosophy is that Yi, or friendship/camaraderie is higher than any other
relationship.
You must make friends with your business contacts
before you can really do much business. Every toast of drink, every
business transaction, are all means of enhancing this friendship.
The West says it is "Guanxi" or connections, but a true relationship is
more than just simple connections and it will bring you lots of Guanxi,
too.
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